A father even too mean or too bad he is still our father . We can't deny the facts. Still he is God's gift to his children . When I was a little child I indeed hated my Dad. I never loved my Dad because of what he has done to us. I prayed that my father will go to hell. But when God spoke to him when I was 12 years old, the Lord makes me feel I need to loved my Dad in any aspect of his life . Truly my dad served the Lord and commit to the ministry. He surrendered his life to Jesus. From that time, from glory to glory my father have change. God also change my heart not to hate my father but to love, respect, obey and honor him. It's too hard to love a father who is really mean, but to God who is really a loving father nothing is impossible. He who can change everything even the hardest heart of a man he surely can.
Having a hard time loving your Dad? The key to this is Forgiveness. Forgive your father to all he have done. Give him a chance to change. Proving to you that he is still your father. In this case our Father who is in heaven will be glorify, grateful and delight seeing his children loving their father and I know at the right time we will be blessed by God for doing this. We only have one father don't waste the time not loving him because may be its our last chance to say to him that we loved and surely care for him. I love you 'Tatay'. Thanks for everything. Thanks for imparting your life to me, your such a blessing. |